The Millers Announce Their Retirement

Dear Friends of the Savior,

Karen and I wanted to give you an important update.  We have decided that the time for us to retire is nearing.  We will step down as your rectors on May 31, 2026, after 9-1/2 years of service.

We feel sad to think about not having this wonderful place in your lives. We love you, and we know you love us. Being allowed to serve at Savior is one of the great joys of our lives. But we also feel a peaceful awareness that this is the right step for us, and the right step for Savior. We’d like to share with you some of our process and our thinking.

On our sabbatical last summer, we had the gift of being able to slow down for an extended period and listen to God. (As Mark Buchanan says, It is only in rest that we can get in touch with what is “inmost and utmost.”) We slowly began to sense God was inviting us into our next season. Specifically, to set down the responsibilities of active senior leadership, which we’ve carried most of our adult lives, and to move into a time of greater availability, personal creativity, and healthcare.

Availability: We’ve been blessed with children and grandchildren and want to be available more to them, and to friends, and to people in need.

Personal creativity: We’d like to now harvest some lifelong learning to help younger leaders. I am developing a Substack, “Better Preaching,” in which I’ll provide practical help for preachers; Karen wants to write a guidebook to help leaders find their life vision. (Karen will continue, part-time, with her coaching practice, “Strengthen Your Leadership.)

Healthcare: We both have chronic, degenerative medical conditions, and it’s taking increasing time to manage those, with appointments, tests, procedures, therapies. Time for an afternoon nap wouldn’t be bad, either.

We believe this is not only the right step for us, but for Church of the Savior. The church will be blessed by younger leaders with fresh legs, who can see things we missed and lead you in this third decade of life and ministry.

We know that leadership transitions like this can feel sad or scary or disorienting--for everyone. But the Lord will walk with all of us through it, and we will walk with you through it. In fact, we’re telling you about our retirement now, so the Vestry and bishop have plenty of time to identify the next rector(s), and for all of you to have a smooth, non-rushed transition.

God has raised up Savior and guided her for over 20 years, and he will continue to do so in the future. On a prayer retreat in July 2023, I sensed this Scripture (from Nehemiah 9:20-21) was a particular word for Savior: “You sent your good Spirit to instruct them, and you did not stop giving them manna from heaven or water for their thirst. For forty years you sustained them in the wilderness, and they lacked nothing. Their clothes did not wear out, and their feet did not swell!”

We know this may be a lot to take in. Feel free to reach out to either of us to just talk, process, or ask questions. Below, Senior Warden Synthia Cathcart and we try to answer some of the immediate questions you may have.

Blessings and peace,

--Fr. Kevin and Mtr. Karen

Questions You May Be Asking

--answered by Fr. Kevin and Mtr. Karen

Q: Will you stay at Savior, as Fr. Bill and Mtr. Linda did?

A: No. The Richardsons have family in Wheaton, so it made sense for them to stay. Our daughter and her family live in Aurora, and we plan to move near them and find a church in that area.

 Q: How will we find a new rector?

A: The Bylaws make this clear: The Vestry selects the rector, “with the active involvement and concurrence of the Diocesan Bishop,” which in Savior’s case will be Bishop Jeff Bailey. In the search process (as in any matter), the Vestry may “employ such outside assistance as it deems necessary.”

Q: What about Mtr. Sarah?

A: She’s eligible. The Vestry, along with Bishop Jeff, will determine the candidate process and select the next rector.

Q: You’re on the Vestry (and Mtr. Karen is a non-voting attender). How much will you two be involved in selecting the new rector?

A: As rector, I am eligible to vote on the selection of a new rector; however, we believe the selection belongs best with those Vestry members who will be here with that new rector. So I will recuse myself from the selection vote. But Karen and I are available as a resource to the rest of the Vestry, to help with the process wherever they feel that’s helpful.

Q: What will you be doing over the next 9 months?

A: What we’re doing now:  continue to lead the church. But our special focus will be helping Savior through the transition.

More Questions You May Have

--answered by Synthia Cathcart, Senior Warden of the Vestry

Q: I have some questions or thoughts about the process. Where do I go with those?

A: I will be gathering those, on behalf of the Vestry, so connect with me (arnold.cathcart@gmail.com or 417-224-3992). You’re welcome, though, to contact any member of our Vestry.

Q: How will we know what’s going on?

A: I or another representative from Vestry will be giving updates.

Q: How are you feeling about the task before the Vestry and our church?

A: Sad that the Millers will be stepping down, but hopeful and trusting in God. God already knows who He is preparing for Savior, and if we humbly and diligently seek the Lord’s will, He will guide us. Asking God’s direction and waiting on his leading were critical to leaders like Moses, Joshua, and King David, and we, as a church, need to enter this time of transition with humility and confidence, asking God’s help, direction and blessing in this process.

Holy Week Guide

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Help to Enter Holy Week

It’s intense and only once a year. What is going on?

For Christians, the most important week of the year is Holy Week—the name we give the final and ultimate week of Jesus’ earthly life.

We don’t so much study that as enter it. Holy Week began in the 4th century, as Christians in Jerusalem wanted to worship Christ in the exact places where he had been, to retrace his steps during those momentous events. Therefore, our worship during Holy Week is even more tactile, often primal—waving palm fronds, touching a wooden cross, lighting a candle, washing feet, dancing, ringing bells. (This is also why it’s a great week for kids. They often enter this worship better than we do.) Even Covid can’t take all of this away.

My final word of overview is that Holy Week works as one unified week, one giant wave rising and cresting and carrying us toward the shore. We aren’t used to thinking this way. Most folks I know grew up viewing Maundy Thursday as wholly optional, Good Friday as like going to a funeral service, and Easter Vigil as that weird thing Anglicans do. Actually, those 3 services are 1 joint service. We don’t “end” the service after Maundy Thursday or Good Friday; there is no closing hymn, no recessional, no dismissal; we simply allow you a break to go home and sleep, then come back to continue in worship.

And now a few pastoral and practical words for each service:

Palm Sunday palm frond

Palm Saturday

Saturday, April 12

5pm, Pleasant Hill Community Church (PHCC)

26W401 Geneva Rd, Wheaton, IL 60187

This service features two parts, in jarring juxtaposition: (1) An outdoor palm procession. We are the crowd along the road into Jerusalem, waving palm branches and singing to welcome Jesus as he enters Jerusalem as King. (2) The Passion reading—the account of Jesus’ trial and crucifixion. Now we are the crowd that turns against Jesus, shouting “Crucify him!” (Join in loudly at this part of the reading.)

Stations of the Cross road to the cross

Stations of the Cross

Tuesday, April 15 through Friday, April 18

Various times, PHCC

In this self-guided, interactive journey for all ages, move through the final 14 key moments of Jesus’s life, from his betrayal to his burial. This year’s time slots are:

  • Tuesday, April 15, 6-9pm

  • Wednesday, April 16, 8:30-10pm

  • Thursday, April 17, 7:30-9:30pm, and

  • Friday, April 18, 12-3:00pm with nursery available.

Maundy Thursday bread and wine

Maundy Thursday (Eve)

Wednesday, April 16

7pm, PHCC

The word “maundy” relates to “mandate,” because on the Thursday night before he died, Jesus gave his followers a mandate: “Love each other just as much as I love you” (John 13:34). In this service, we are the disciples, and we see how much Jesus loves us: (1) Footwashing: He washes our feet (optional; wear socks and shoes easy for you to remove); (2) Communion: He gives us his life in the Last Supper; (3) Prayer Watch: He prays in agony in Gethsemane until he can take on the suffering for our sake. (You’re invited to remain in prayer following the service, as the disciples were invited by Jesus to pray with him.)

Please note: this year’s service will be on Wednesday at 7pm.

Good Friday crown of thorns

Good Friday

Friday, April 18

4pm, PHCC

Christians call this disastrous day in Jesus’ life—an event of government-sponsored torture and public execution—“good.” In what possible way could “Good Friday” be good? Because a greater plan was at work. Several times Jesus predicted that he would be betrayed, tortured, and killed (Luke 9:22; 9:44; and 18:31-33)—and, incredibly, this was part of God’s plan (Luke 22:22) and the reason Jesus came (John 12:27-28). Therefore, our worship is subdued and grateful but not like a funeral. As Ellen Richard Vosburg has written, “This is not a somber recapitulation of Jesus' death, but rather a thankful and reverently joyful recollection of his death that gave us life.” In the Good Friday service, we are eyewitnesses of Jesus’ suffering and death. We hear and participate again in the Passion narrative. And we take time to pray at the cross.

Easter Vigil empty tomb

The Great Vigil of Easter

Saturday, April 19

5pm, PHCC

In the early church, new believers could not receive the sacred mystery of Communion until they had been taught and trained. The final night of their training was the night before Easter. They would stay awake all night. At dawn, as the Easter sunrise began to light the sky, they would be baptized and put on white robes. That’s how the Easter Vigil began.

Like those early believers, we spend a long time in worship (so bring water and maybe a power bar). The service comes in 4 parts:

1.     Service of Light: a new fire is kindled, and from it the Paschal Candle (Easter Candle) is lit, symbolizing Christ, the light of the world. We share in that light by lighting our own candles

2.     Service of Lessons: we hear how God saved his people in ages past and respond with songs and prayers. That culminates in the Acclamation that “Jesus is risen!,” which is shouted and celebrated. (Bring a bell to ring!)

3.     Baptism: we baptize new believers and renew our own baptismal vows.

4.     Communion: we celebrate the victory of Life over Death in this holy feast.

Easter Sunday Celebration & Brunch

Sunday, April 20

10:30am, Tyndale House Publishers

351 Executive Drive, Carol Stream, IL 60188

Our joy continues! We will hear the Gospel account of the 1st Easter, sing favorite Easter songs, and set up the flowering cross. Following the service, enjoy brunch, get to know people, and thank God for all he has done among us during Holy Week.

Jan Bruesch: How I Met Jesus, and How I Live with Pain

How DID YOU MEET JESUS?

Jan Bruesch is a long time Savior Member.

Jan Bruesch is a long time Savior Member.

There have been 2 guiding factors in my life that Jesus has used to draw me in closer to him. The first is ALPHA. I have worked with ALPHA for decades. Those years were times that I was most in touch with my faith. I have worked with ALPHA Chicago, and ALPHA National. I attended conferences, talks, and conventions which even led me to see the Pope! Over those decades God grew me in my faith through the powerful witness of ALPHA. 

I ran the ALPHA course at Calvary Episcopal Church in Lombard, my second church home, and my faith and knowledge of Jesus grew immensely. When I started to participate in ALPHA, I realized that I had never really known Jesus. I had been a church goer all my life, but it was my involvement with ALPHA where I saw other people’s lives transformed, and in turn my life was transformed. I remember vividly, it was the Sunday of the Transfiguration in February, and I went up to the priest and said, “Donald, I am on the mountain top, and I don’t want to come down!” It felt as if I was being Transfigured up on the mountain with Jesus. 

It was during the second ALPHA course that I helped lead at church that a man named John attended and shared that he was just diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. He was told that he only had 12 weeks to live, which wouldn’t have even been long enough for him to finish the course. Fr. Donald assured him that “we” would journey with him. I knew in my heart that I was the one that would journey with John since it was my responsibility to lead the lay ministry. John kept coming back week after week, and I got to know him very well. The doctors gave John 12 weeks to live, and God gave him 12 months. He attended 3 more ALPHA courses with us. His presence was important and during his illness he served the group so diligently. He even helped to start a prayer blanket ministry, of which he was the first recipient. On his deathbed, John expressed his life had been changed and he attributed this change to his participation on ALPHA. I personally saw that change happen. I saw Jesus minister through my dying friend. It was one of the strongest times in my life that I encountered Our Lord. I look at John’s photo often when I am struggling, and I remember John’s final months. I think “Lord, you were there. I see you at work.”  It has been 20 years since those first days at ALPHA. Things have changed. I have changed. I know that Jesus is here for me, and I feel His presence. 

How DO YOU LIVE WITH PAIN?

2 years ago, in August 2021 I had an accident. I fell and found myself in a rehabilitation center called Belmont. Just like John I encountered Jesus during my suffering. The most prominent way was in other people ministering to me. Especially my dear friend, Ada. She visited me 2-3 times a week and called every day. She even did my laundry, even though the facility would do it there for me. Many others gathered around me as well and their prayers for me were answered so vividly. I believe that I would still be at Belmont if not for the prayers of the faithful. The first time I was able to return to Church of the Savior, people came up to me that I didn’t even know, and they said they were praying for me. The power of their prayer was very apparent. I could see God’s work in my life…and in their lives!

Now, I am permanently disabled from my accident, and I am learning to cope with the body that God has given me. I am learning to live with the restrictions that I have, although I grieve the loss of the things that I used to be able to do. This leads me to the second influential tool that God has used to draw me into Himself. It is the National Order of Daughters of the King. I have been a Daughter since 1987.They have a motto which states, 

For His Sake…

I am but one, but I am one.

I cannot do everything,

But I can do something.

What I can do, I ought to do.

What I ought to do,

By the grace of God, I will do. 

Lord, what will you have me do?

 I often find that I say this motto now. “What would you have me do? I can’t do everything, but I can do something.” I know that God has something for me to do. The Daughters of the King is not a social club, but a lifetime vow. A vow of prayer, service, and evangelism. I will continue to follow the voice of the Lord diligently in the face of suffering, just as my friend John.